The author, on her trusty gynecological bench This article originally appeared on VICE UK On Thursday morning, I was getting ready for a professional domination client. It was a medical play session, which meant a lot of prep: making sure my imposing NHS gynecological bench was pristine, with crisp white paper pulled over its navy faux leather, ready to receive my eager, apprehensive "patient." I checked each piece of medical equipment—the speculum to stretch the anus wide; the Wartenberg wheel , with its spikes designed to make the most sensitive skin twitch and quiver. And once all my physical kit was primed, I had to get myself ready, showering, shaving, pulling my hair into a severe bun, and getting myself into the headspace of the evil nurse—clinical, caring, and sadistic. As I sat down with a cup of tea, waiting for my client's nervous knock at my door, I reflected on my preparation. And I realized that the ways we sex workers get ourselves ready for a booking might offer lessons to anyone asked to scrub up and give a speech to get people on-side—whether presenting at uni, at work or getting ready for The Talk with someone you're dating. Here are some of my top tips. GET YOUR SHIT TOGETHER IN ADVANCE I'm a little anxious by nature. I was particularly nervous in my first few bookings, but over time I learned that if I had precisely everything I would need exactly where I needed it—from handcuffs to lube to the eyeliner and n
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